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Holding On and Letting Go: Gentle Ways to Face Christmas After a Loss and Grief
The holiday season can be especially challenging when grieving the loss of a loved one. Balancing the desire to honour cherished memories with the need to care for one’s emotional wellbeing requires a compassionate and flexible approach. Every individual’s grief journey is unique, and there is no prescribed way to experience the festive season following bereavement.
Bruce Missen
Dec 7, 2025


When Memories Become Clutter: Understanding Hoarding and Grief
Discover how grief can lead to hoarding and the compassionate ways families can support loved ones through this challenging journey. Learn gentle strategies for healing and memory keeping after loss.
Bruce Missen
Oct 5, 2025


What to Write in a Sympathy Card - Funeral
Finding the right words for a sympathy card can be challenging. We often want to comfort a grieving friend or family member, yet worry about saying the wrong thing.
Bruce Missen
Aug 13, 2025


Navigating the Questions That Arise through grief
Losing someone close to us is one of life’s most profound challenges. The absence of a loved one can leave us feeling as though a part of our world has shifted forever. As we move through the grieving process, it’s natural for questions—both big and small—to surface along the way.
Bruce Missen
Jul 9, 2025


Living Grief: Navigating the Heartache of Dementia When Your Loved One Is Still Here
Caring for someone with dementia is a journey marked by profound love, resilience, and, often, a unique kind of grief. This grief-sometimes called "living grief" or "ambiguous loss"-arises not from the physical absence of a loved one, but from the gradual fading of the person you once knew, even as they remain physically present.
Bruce Missen
May 11, 2025


Overcoming Loss without financial grief.
Planning a funeral is not only an emotional process but can also be a financial strain.
Bruce Missen
Sep 23, 2024


Do I have to wear Black at a Funeral?
Attending a funeral is a sensitive occasion, and dressing appropriately is a meaningful way to show respect.
Bruce Missen
Aug 24, 2024


Funeral Wake Traditions
A funeral wake, often referred to simply as a "wake," is a social gathering associated with death and the period following it.
Bruce Missen
Jul 25, 2024


Mother's Day without mum
Mother's Day can be a bittersweet time for those of us who have lost our mothers. How do we celebrate a day that reminds us of what we lost?
Bruce Missen
Apr 25, 2024


Navigating Grief with Compassion: What to Say and Avoid When Someone Has Lost a Baby or Child
Losing a child or a baby is an unimaginable tragedy
Bruce Missen
Sep 8, 2023
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